Tuesday, April 3, 2012

You're my HERO!!!

Admire; to regard somebody or something with approval, appreciation, or respect.
Approve, respect, regard, to be in awe of, to marvel.
Where do I start?? There are so many people I admire all for different reasons. I sat and tried to think of one person I admire and I decided I would do the most important people, they all deserve to be recognized.

My husband definitely fits the description of admire. I have admiration for my husband because he has overcome adversity. Since the beginning of his life he had trials, he was born into an abusive, addiction ridden, and poverty stricken family. He was ridiculed his entire childhood and never had the opportunity to have a best friend. Life threw us a curveball a little over three years ago when my husband became disabled. He never quit, instead of giving up he found new passions in life. He is the most amazing father; each time I watch him with the children I am in awe of his love for them.

She is seventy two years old and I hope I am a tenth of what she is someday. Despite her chronological age, her physical age is forty five. She takes care of elderly in their home; cooking, cleaning, anything they may need from her. Losing her husband at the age of thirty six left her with six children to raise by herself, and a grandchild on the way. A highly influential person in my life that has shaped me into the person I am today; I dread the day that she will no longer be in my life the way I need her to be. She is my grandmother, and I say with pride that I am her granddaughter.

When you think of what a mother should be, a vision of my mother is what I see. Although she is flawed she is resilient. She became a mother when she was just fifteen years old and then gave birth to me at the age of eighteen. Despite the stigma of teen mothers, she set out to prove everyone wrong! She was what we call the Kool-Aid mom, snacks waiting for us when we got home, hime room mother, and our biggest advocate. I have learned to always go the extra mile from her; to do everything with your heart, and to cherish your children when they are little. Ten years ago she had a surgery that ended in the loss of her legs. She took it with stride and realized that there is a reason for this and it would not stop her from being who she was. She is amazing!

Last but certainly not least my father, my friend. Anyone who knows our family will certainly tell you I am my father’s daughter. I look like my father and have most of who I am a reflection of my dad. He is strong, brilliant, caring, generous, and stubborn. Although raised in a horrible home, he has been an incredible role model for me. I always held men to the standard of my father, what a man should be like. My husband has lived up to those expectations and more. I am eternally grateful to my father for setting the bar so that I did not settle for less than I deserved.

There are so many more people that I admire in life. I am not the type of person that admires people like Bill Gates, Donald Trump, or Oprah Winfrey. I admire those who stand up against the majority for what is right. The people that change the world through mores instead of money; people like Martin Luther King Jr., Rosa Parks, Barack Obama, Lt. Ehren Watada, Aung San Suu Kyi, Emmeline Pankhurst, Eleanor Roosevelt, Ester, Moses, Ahmad Batebi, Nelson Mandela, Susan B. Anthony, Harriet Tubman, and Jesus. These people have changed not only the lives of the people in their time but our lives and the future generation; creating the path for the next right fighters.

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